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BALLARE SUL TAVOLO
(To Dance on the Table)
Bernini Fountain in Piazza Navona Starting Week Six, the U.S. started bombing. I realized that Bin Laden is really fighting his war with words of terror, not airplanes.

I decided that I would not let him win by making me afraid. So, I went dancing.

A Bernini Statue at night in the Piazza Navona
One of my best friends in Rome is a young Israeli man whose favorite expression is ballare sul tavolo. He loves to make our class laugh with his stories of dancing on the table. He, more than anyone, knows the importance of finding joy, even if your country is at war.

Week Six was the halfway mark of my visit to Rome and the one-month anniversary of the attack on America. It was also the week when the U.S. began bombing Afghanistan and putting out warnings to Americans living abroad.

When I saw Bin Laden's video screed, I got angry and so afraid that I changed my morning routine of walking to St. Peters Square. I thought if ever there were a target in Rome, it would be the Vatican. But that night, something clicked in me. I realized that this is precisely what Bin Laden wants. For us all to live in terror.

The next day I resumed my life as normal--vigilant, but undeterred by fear. That same night, I attended a class at my Italian school, where I learned how to cook a typical Italian meal, Eggplant Parmigiana, with students from Japan, Canada, Israel, Seattle and Westchester. After a delicious dinner and a couple bottles of wine, my Israeli friend cried out: Ballare Sul Tavolo!! What's a girl to do?

A long walk and two l'autobus later, I found myself standing in front of a rope at a trendy Rome nightclub at one o'clock in the morning. Undaunted, I walked up to the man behind the rope and simply said (with some license): “We are just two people from New York and we simply want to dance.” Bingo! We were in and we danced for hours.

I had to smile: I haven't lost my touch. Steve Rubell would be proud!

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Q - Is your trip to Rome what you expected it to be?

A - I expected to learn about the Romans. I never thought I would learn so much about the world.

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